
Business network groups come in many flavours, including;
- Local independent groups (often not for profit)
- National commercial groups (like BNI)
- Trade organisations sideshows (Chambers of Commerce)
- Themed network events (women only)
Essentially they all represent the same thing. They are groups of business owners who would like to attract more business. The formats of the meetings vary, though most commonly you get a brief opportunity to stand up and announce your business to the group, and a session to talk to the other members more informally.
Common business networking mistakes
- Don’t just assume people are there to buy from you, because they are also there to sell to you. If you show a little interest in other people then they may show a little interest in you.
- Don’t try and hard sell people straight away. The most successful relationships (like any relationship) take time to build. The more effort you put into building relationships with people, the more likely they are to do business with you. It might take 4 visits to the same networking event or it may take 40 to begin earning the trust of other members.
- Don’t assume that your total potential opportunity is limited to the people in the room. It’s not uncommon to make one good contact at a networking event that will go on to recommend many of their own friends, contacts and customers to you in the future.
- Don’t be scared. Being scared takes many forms, the very worst being an inferiority complex. There is nothing worse at a networking event than to have somebody trying too hard to impress you with their success. Everybody is in that room because they need more business. I would also say do your best not to be shy. Being shy is more forgivable and endearing than being a schmuk however, and shyness will fade in time as you make friends and build your confidence.
- Don’t assume it’s not for you. There are very few tradesmen at the events I go to, but the ones that do attend seem to do very well. You do not have to wear a suit or read the Financial Times to fit in.
The benefits of business networking
- Leads leads leads leads leads! That’s why most people are there. You may pick up the business of another member, and you may even find that members start recommending you to their contacts.
- Starting a business can be quite insular. Attending networking events gives you a connection to the outside world, and can give you a bit of purpose.
- The more people you meet, the more likely you are to spot opportunities you otherwise wouldn’t have been exposed to. Maybe you’ll bump into somebody who offers a complimentary service that you hadn’t previously considered.
- Learn from other members. You’re all business owners, and whilst you offer different products or services, you will often hear tips, tricks and tactics that can help you run or improve your business.
- Meet nice people. Networking groups are a rich diversity of (largely) hardworking, honest and friendly people. Sure not everybody there will be to your taste, but you don’t have to make friends with everybody you meet. As I write this, I’m playing squash tonight with somebody I first met at a networking event a few years ago, who also attended my wedding. Another member of a group gave me a few squash lessons to get me started. I would never have met these people otherwise.
- Build an army. Business owners tend to be quite skilful people in their own field, often in an area that you are not. It’s very handy to have a list of contacts you can call for a little information on a specialist subject. If you are willing to help others, they will be willing to do the same.
There are no guarantees that business networking groups will work for you. Some people just don’t have the personality to make it work, and some people may find their business is a bit too specialist. Most commonly however, it’s lack of vision, patience and effort that leads people to drawing negative conclusions too early. You should definitely give it a try before discounting it, but only try it if you are willing to commit to becoming an active group member for at least a few months.




